Daily Prompt: Forgive and Forget?

A few years ago, I somehow got into the firm conviction that anything-good or bad- happening to me is only by the will of God. Those who cause any harm to me, do so only because God wants me to suffer the pain ; same is the belief when someone helps me or makes me happy. Since the day I got into this belief, there was no occasion to hate anybody..and hence there was no chance to forgive anyone…
Talking like Jesus? Probably like Lord Krishna..
Only problem is ,my wife feels that I am becoming emotionless,thereby losing the joy and sorrow of feelings… Probably God is telling me through her… Just don’t know…